Dancing Before Dr. Mengele (5-Minute Rabbi YY Jacobson Chanukah Video)
Tonight as I sat watching my candles, I listened to Rabbi YY Jacobson’s short daily Chanukah videos for this year, including this powerful story of a mother whose advice before she was murdered at Auschwitz changed her daughter’s life forever.
Read MoreWhy My Chanukah Candles Remind Me of Mom’s Burial
Every night of Chanukah, after I light my candles, I sit down and watch them for half an hour. Rabbanit Yemima, quoting the Chavat Yair, instructed us to do this many years ago…To stop the treadmill we’re on 305 days a year (365 minus 52 Shabbats and 8 days of Chanukah) and just sit. And […]
Read MoreThe Vegetable Seller’s Surprising T-shirt
Saw this man at the market today. Looks like he doesnt know what his shirt says, but i still think it’s awesome!
Read MoreThe Best Chanukah Segula for Moms (2-Minute Elana Mizrahi Video)
I loved this–so simple and perfect. Looking forward to using this segula every night of Chanukah:)
Read MoreMom’s Unusual Chanukah Tradition
In her later years, Mom would go to sleep not long after sunset. This presented a problem during Chanukah, since by the time it was getting dark enough to light Chanukah candles, it was already late enough that Mom would be asleep by the time the candles had burnt out. So since she was worried […]
Read MoreMom’s 10 Commandments
Last night, at the Zoom memorial service marking the 30th day since Mom’s burial, Mom’s family members and best friends shared what we thought Mom’s top life advice would have been. I’ve mushed together what everybody said into Mom’s 10 commandments (or at least Mom’s 10 heartfelt suggestions:) 1. You never get anywhere without hard […]
Read MoreWhen I Told Shiva Callers I have 8 Kids
I waste so much mental energy kicking myself for the fact that being a mother and homemaker takes up so many hours of my day, comparing myself (unfavorably!) with imaginary mothers who are so much more efficient and productive than I am. Far superior mothers and homemakers to me, and in a fraction of the […]
Read MoreThe Things Mom Didn’t Care About
Mom’s MS would come in waves, sometimes she was doing better, sometimes worse. When she was doing worse, Mom would fall a lot. But unlike when healthy people fall, Mom wasn’t able to stick out her hands out in time to protect her head. So about a decade ago, for around a year, Mom would […]
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